feminist critique
from bitch magazine:
"[the researcher] Darker-Smith discovered a subtle but provocative correlation between fairy tales and violence. women who grew up reading such tales as cinderella and Beauty and the Beast, she found, internalize unrealistic attitudes about romance, namely by manifesting submissive behavior and holding fast to the belief that love conquers all--even violence. DS has her critics: author marina warner notes that DS misreads certain tales, such as Beauty and the Beast, in which the beast treats the heroine well, and the crux of the tale centers not on female thralldom, but on seeing past appearances."
except! who is the one seeing past appearances here? not the man who has been sentenced to imprisonment in the beastlike visage (exactly for NOT seeing past appearances, no?), but the woman who once again must bridge the gap for both the man and the woman to set the man free. would this not be again--love conquers all. even the bad traits of the male which are miraculously transformed by the 'work' of the female.
but i do like the ultimate critique of this and these studies:
"and deborah cameron, a language prof at Oxford University, declared that this is just another study that examines the psychology of victimized women rather than questioning why so many men think it's okay to beat their mates."
indeed.
posted by catswym @ 9:18 AM
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"available studies indicate that between 20 and 50 percent of women in various populations around the world have experienced spouse abuse at some point in their lives (Heise et al. 1994; World Health Organization 2002)"
from, this site.
also, according to them, rates of spousal abuse overall seem to be going down in north america (altho other sites indicate this may not be true for especially poor households). so if you were raised to believe those things, it was quite a "new fashioned" household.
Violence (or even yelling) has never appealed to me as a solution for problem solving in relationships- that's at least partially due to my upbringing, of course. sigh.
I've never understood why people find violence acceptable. Thank goodness it's at least trending down.
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